I think when someone curses they should be kicked from chat so to give a warning. And instead of making the message say "You have been temporarily kicked from chat. Take a few moments to chill out. You can go back in X minutes," make it say "Please do not curse or use abusive language, as it is not tolerated well on this site. You can enter chat again in X minutes.", but only for an incident like this.
There have been many reporting of bad things happening when mods aren't around, so this would be a BIG help IMO. If a user curses, they get a warning. But this should be for BIG words not kicking for the occasional "damn" that goes on.
Pokemaster, I hope this is taken into consideration as I think it will be beneficial for the site, and remember the fact that eleven year old kids (Such as me) use this site.