I, unfortunately, cannot think of a good reply to that. As flattered as I am, I think that's a decision you should make on your own. My input is often shoddy at best.
Dec 9, 2022
by
Gau
Interesting thoughts.
Really, I don't know if my father has anything to do with it. I don't even remember what he looks like, I was very young when he left and him and my mom obviously weren't in a stable relationship. Everybody's like that nowadays. Wouldn't surprise me if he had somethin' to do with it, though. I hear the lack of a father in the house can have effects on a lot of things, and I'm in no position to argue. But I don't imagine myself with an unfaithful boyfriend or husband, or one who wants to leave me or something. I just won't settle for less than my standards, and my standards are high. I have high standards likely because I am picky by nature and I see so many idiots doing stupid things that I refuse to be part of that crowd, and probably some other stuff. Like kids my age trying to date. That is not only stupid and pointless, but pathetic. Kids can't hold on to a romantic relationship, and the fact that what they're feeling is just hormones is likely one thing that contributes to that. You may mention that there are exceptions, but there are exceptions to practically everything, so it's frankly of little consequence. I say worry about romance when you're old enough to drive a car because it sounds catchy, but I believe you should wait longer than that. And then there are the adults, doing much more gross things. I do not want to fall into their camp either. I want to fall into their camp less, in fact.
Anyway, since most 'romance' has nothing to do with actual love in this day and age, I don't see the point of me dating. Not just now, but ever. Frankly, even if I found that 'perfect' guy, I probably wouldn't date him. I don't know for sure, since I'll never meet him, but if I were to date him, I'd want to marry him, but what's the point of all this if I don't wanna have kids? This is all assuming, of course, that he'd like me back, which given my personality is a difficult thing to pull off.
When I think about it, you kinda make it seem like all this is a bad thing. Really, I'd say it saves a lot of awkwardness and time. And potentially money on whichever side is spending money. Why date people I don't want a future with?
Dec 9, 2022
by
Gau
