It sounds like a hack... it sounds interesting but I guess you have to prove to me that it’s actually a thing I don’t wanna make the alternate universe special?
Jan 15, 2022
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Dyla N
The fact that you're questioning your feelings about her now is a testimony of that, and it's really easy to get confused b/w love and attraction during teenage years. I recommend you that read online about how love and attraction and even obsession differ, because a relationship based on anything other than the former is bound to not work. Also, if you want a real relationship then I'd personally recommend being good friends with the other person for AT LEAST 6 months before taking things any further. I know that looks like a lot, but you're looking for someone to spend your life with (if life situations allow), not someone to brag to your friends about. Good luck with your friendship with her and for the future! Peace.
(Holy crap this turned out to be way bigger than I thought and if my tone feels like I'm scolding you or blaming any of you both then sorry that's not the case lol.)
(Part 3/3 FINALLY)
Jan 15, 2022
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xPsydxck
It's honestly a good thing that she might avoid you and not talk as much for a while, because not only does this suggest that she had feelings for you, but it'd also make losing feelings for both of you easier. Trust me dude, this is like the best way to start your friendship again w/o feeling awkward about it - start it from scratch. Also, don't worry much about how the friendship would be. If you both liked each other enough to develop feelings, then a small break wouldn't make much of a difference. Just pretend like such an awkward thing never happened. And don't feel bad about making her uncomfy too, as you shouldn't feel bad about telling someone you like them and you both would get over it soon.
I'd also like to say that feelings are a mess during teenage years and it's best to take things slow. If you feel like you like someone then wait for a bit to see how long those feelings persist, as you might think you love someone one day and lose feelings for them after a couple of weeks. (Part 2/3 lol)
Jan 15, 2022
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xPsydxck
Hey, so I happened to read the stuff about you and your new crush and I hope you don't mind that. I have a few things to say:
Did you know anything about her past online relationship? If no, then take my advice, would ya? You should always ask the other person about their past relationships and how it ended (just the surface or you'll look like a creep lol) so that you get a basic idea of how they handle relationships. If yes, then I personally would've seen a fake online relationship as a red flag - the person doesn't take relationships seriously. But the fact that she feels miserable about it is actually a good thing, because it shows that she does think about what she did wrong in the past. I think you could've waited some time until she properly reflected upon that relationship and got over it, as that would also prolly make her ready for a fresh relationship (if she actually wanted one).
The fact that she wants you to have more friends is kinda weird, but idk you much so I won't say bout it. (Part 1/2)
Jan 15, 2022
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xPsydxck
I don’t remember being able to use Roar Of Tome that way... jeez i kughta dust off one of the old games someday.
Jan 15, 2022
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Dyla N
You’re kidding, right? Whatever you smoked to come up with that shouldn’t be legal. Also, that’s exactly my point.
Jan 15, 2022
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BottomlessSea
I don’t think it’s easy in reality, it just that crushes come and go, and they shouldn’t be the end of the world, especially when you’re younger.
Me and Giru are…still friends, why?
Jan 15, 2022
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BottomlessSea
It eas my original username and i might’ve mentioned it to you before, its also my cats name XD, well one of my cats yhe other is Sydni
ORAS has an alt iniverse? I knew USUM did but for about the ORAS one.
Jan 15, 2022
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Dyla N
I very rarely express my thoughts. I see no benefit in it.
Have I found people to be attractive? Sure. Have I had a crush on someone? No, if you’ll take my word for it. I’m introverted to the point where I get a “I’ve never heard you talk before” half of the times I talk, and I’ve never really gotten close enough to a person in reality to the point where I’d have a crush on them. While I’m closer to people on here, I don’t get crushes on internet people, and I’m sure you already know my position on internet relationships.
Jan 15, 2022
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BottomlessSea