zyla, you can't be telling other people's personal information, especially if it's nsfw, publically in the chatroom. It is against the rules. please read
https://pokemondb.net/pokebase/meta/82526/staffs-expectations-regarding-personal-topics-relationships for more info if needed.
if there's something about that situation that i'm missing, please let me know, although I'm aware of April 18th. Please don't mention it on the site again