A lot of these are a huge stretch, or not even mind control/possession at all.
Combee, Pawniard, and male Salandit is a matter of hierarchy, like worker bees working for the queen bee (quite literally in the case of Combee).
Mewtwo was simply created by machines. The creation its was controlled, but doesn't mean at all that Mewtwo was controlled. Actually, I believe that the anime specifies the issue with it was that it couldn't be controlled.
Porygon, as far as I know, was simply created computer coding. Whether or not it is controlled by the code doesn't seem to be clear, but it doesn't have a mind other than the code, so that's not really mind control.
Remoraid isn't even controlling Mantyke, just its evolution.
Lunatone simply gets its life energy from the moon, that doesn't mean that all of its actions are controlled by the moon.
I'd argue that Rotom, Drifloon, Spiritomb, Yamask, the Honedge, Phantump, and Pumpkaboo lines, and Sinistea aren't what the asker is looking for because they are possessing inanimate objects. It's still possession, but it seems that the asker wants the type of possession that involves a spirit taking over the mind of something living.
Wormadam isn't controlled by the things it turns into parts of its body. Neither is Escavalier, Binacle, Flabebe, Komala, or Cursola.
The Gen 8 fossil Pokemons are just fossils from different creature being combined, it's not a case of them being spirits that possess a completed body of an extinct Pokemon species.