I hid the posts here since they no longer apply, since I removed the flags to this post and the whole thing was just an argument over a point that has since been resolved.
And as for negativity, I believe a more accurate term for it would be being realistic with a slight twinge of being annoyed. And a good reason to be annoyed also, as I doubt there is a person in the world who likes being called a bit** for doing their job. However, you are young, and the impetuousness of youth is better dealt with through patience than through anger. Please, learn to accept that I only do what is best for the site.